How Do I Choose Between A Popular Guy And A Not-As-Cool Good Friend For Prom?
For some ladies, too many requests to take you to prom might be a problem. What would you do if your good friend invited you to go to prom and then another guy, a cool guy, did so, too? When you have to make a decision like this, there are many things to take into consideration. You should not just make a decision in a rash second. Before you say yes to either, and before you turn down the right guy, there are several things to think about.
One thing to remember about prom is that it is supposed to be a very enjoyable day for you. Therefore, when you are considering these two possible dates, one thing you want to consider carefully is which one you will likely have more fun with. You know how much fun your friend is. You also know how an evening out with them will likely be like. Do you know this about the popular guy, too? If you have not gotten to know them yet, do so first. Hang out with them a few times. Is this someone that you will be able to enjoy your prom with?
Next, consider your friend a bit closer. By asking you to prom, did your friend want to believe that your friendship could be more than that? Prom is often an evening for a bit of romance, on the clean side of course. If you do not think you will have a romantic evening out with your friend, then this may not be the right date for you. On the other hand, you may be hoping for a more fun and happy prom, rather than romance. Ask yourself which guy can make that happen.
In either situation, you could run into problems with your friends. Perhaps one will be hurt by not going with you. Perhaps you know someone else they can go with? Under it all, though, you have to make this decision based on how you feel about your friend and the popular guy. Just because he is cool does not mean is he fun. Just because your friend is a lot of fun, you may not want to go with just a friend.
There are many circumstances to take into consideration here. The important thing to remember, though, is that you should give the other guy, the guy you decide not to go to the prom with, an explanation of why not. Be sure to tell them what you have decided honestly and maybe help them to find a new date.
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