How to please your spouse on wedding night?
The pleasure game begins as soon as the couple comes closer after wedding rituals. And the moment they are alone in bedroom, a thrill is passed through body as to how to please your partner on the first night of wedding. While some couples are gripped with the performance anxiety, others are constantly thinking of the pleasure they want to give to their partners. This pendulum swings both side – for men and for women also. So here are some tips for young couples to celebrate the pleasant nights after wedding.
The sex gurus across the world reiterate that foreplay is a prologue to the sexual drama. Without this, perhaps it will be difficult to reach the climax for couples. So you need to understand the value of foreplay before you plunge yourself into the real game. But remember that foreplay does not always mean physical closeness; it can be from sweet nothings to having a hot bath together and even a leisurely walk in a nearby garden. The purpose of foreplay is to arouse each others’ erogenous zones and prepare you for the final show in the bed. Men are more responsive to what they see and women to what they hear and feel. Hence, for woman it is important what they wear and for men, what they talk. A sexy two-piece bikini or the naughty night gown can take men on a fantasy island. Some of the hot-spots of male physique are ‘thigh’ land, buttocks and sure-fire is his testis. Just a gentle stroke on his balls, and he is surrendered to you.
For women, there are many areas that can titillate her for action, but mind you these are not her physical areas. Women are sensitive and therefore, they just love talk, talk and talk. Open up the suitcase of dirty things before her; tell her that you want to touch her, narrate all the parts of her body and eulogize her beauty and figure. Once your verbal sex is over, now focus more on her sensual areas like neck, wrists, inner thighs, lower back, and ears. Remember, this is not the time to touch her breasts and vagina, because they are the trump cards and you don’t normally play those trump cards in the middle of the game.
Now is the time for kissing, caressing, cajoling and coaxing each other with all the passion and delight. Get closer to your partner, and start from the lips and then make sure that no part of your partner’s body is left dry without your kiss. Now you both can play the trump cards; undress each other gently, do not remove your clothes yourself. This is the time when sighs and moans take the charge of situation; your body speaks and body hears. Play with the genitals of each other, more exciting stage would come when you sink the teeth into the soft parts of each other’s body. And finally, you set off for the excursion to ecstasy.
To sum up, I would say that carnal desire in men and women keeps them attracted from the time immemorial. And scholars have been undertaking studies and research to find the reason for this desirability. But the simple reason is that human being always pines for what he or she does not posses. Therefore, the body itself – whether covered or uncovered – invites both sexes for intercourse, and there is no need of any third agent or aphrodisiac to stimulate them for having sex.